Eulogies, brief reflections on the life of the deceased delivered by family or friends, are not traditionally part of the Catholic funeral liturgy. The Order of Christian Funerals, the official liturgical book governing Catholic funeral rites, centers primarily on the celebration of the Mass and the Resurrection. While formal eulogies during the Mass are discouraged, opportunities for sharing memories and offering personal tributes often occur at the vigil service (wake), the reception following the funeral, or in printed materials like memorial pamphlets.
Allowing loved ones to share stories and express their grief publicly can be a source of comfort and healing during a difficult time. These remembrances offer a unique perspective on the life of the deceased, celebrating their individuality and contributions to the lives of others. While maintaining the reverence and solemnity of the funeral Mass, incorporating personalized tributes outside of the main liturgy allows for a more complete expression of grief and appreciation for the deceased. This recognition of the individual’s life complements the liturgical focus on the Christian hope of resurrection.
