When the marrying couple assumes the role of hosts, their invitation wording reflects this. Invitations typically begin with the couple’s names, followed by a request for the honor of guests’ presence at their wedding. For example, an invitation might read: “The pleasure of your company is requested at the marriage of [Couple’s Names].” This differs from invitations hosted by parents, which traditionally place parental names at the beginning and present the couple as being given in marriage.
This style emphasizes the couple’s autonomy and active role in their celebration. It represents a modern approach to wedding etiquette, suitable for couples who are financially independent or simply prefer a more egalitarian presentation. Historically, weddings were often considered a family affair, with parents orchestrating and hosting the event. The shift toward couple-hosted celebrations reflects evolving social norms and the increasing independence of couples.
